A woman duties towards her husband

haha, masih mau ketawa baca judul tulisanku ini, siapapun yang kenal dekat dengan gue pasti taulah gue ga bisa masak. paling omellete, indomie, masak air atau nasi, eh wait gue bisa bikin kangkung tumis, sup ayam dan beberapa homey food. my dad is very good at cooking soalnya...

me : papa, beta pengen bisa masak
P   : Harus itu.
me : ajarin dong
P   : lihat papa masak saja setiap hari, lama-lama ingat (practice makes perfect)

that is how the conversation goes...

    I'm single now, I don't even have a close boy friend ( gebetan) hihi :p
but, I really want to cook something healthy and yummy for my spouse.... (hey, I can dream!) for now i only can cook some easy breaky for my pa and ma ;)
    But before this I need to discuss the rights/duties of the husband and wife

 
A husband’s duties towards his wife: Financial duties (dowry, spending allowance and accommodation) and non financial duties (fair division, good treatment and avoid causing harm) and she has these rights even if she is rich! No opinion does it say my wife works so she can take care of herself, you still have to spend your money on her! (ya nggak?)
    

Give your duties and you will receive your rights.

 

    Traditionally, a man is known to be the bread winner in the family so he has to be the tough one; a woman, however, has different roles as a nurturer and a teacher making her the emotional one. So, should you cook for your husband? Do you cook for your husband? The simple answer to the first question is yes. Well, if you can then why not. It also depends on your culture, your upbringing and your husband. " Please find out from his sister or his mother whether or not he likes his food (ask him if you must), then at least you’ll know whether to invest in that cooking crash course amonth before your wedding" (kata seorang sahabatku yang sudah menikah tahun lalu, very young age loh ya) 

    But if for instance a guy marries a princess, I know we all are but  a real one who does not know where the kitchen of her house is (that’s probably exaggerating a bit), I think cooking for your husband is about showing him love, showing that you care enough to bother to want to cook for him. Now please husbands, you also need to show appreciation and give compliments. Just because she loves to cook and wants to cook or has to cook does not mean you should take it for granted. A little bit of thank you goes a very long way. Let her have some time off, eat out or even let her put her feet up and you do the cooking
    I asked a few people what they feel in their opinion was one food you need to learn how to cook before marriage and these are the answers I got.

Indian – Apparently you need to know how to make “Biryani” and I’m sure it does not matter if it is lamb, chicken or beef; just as long as it is Biryani. - Saniya kamal ( she is my virtual friend,she lives in Pune India)

Malay – “Eggs”. I was like seriously right, but apparently there are some people that do not know how to make eggs, so please, learn to make eggs. Although rice is the real thing here.

 

Remember, men and women do have different roles in life. It is important to complete one another rather than compete with each other. It is a relationship of compensation and cooperation.

 I'LL GIVE IT TRY ( I HAVEN'T MET YOU BUT I PROMISE I WILL COOK FOR YOU) :)


see you in the future, my other half !